| $: | The dollar sign is sometimes used for fees. Usually $ = $100, $$ = $200, $$$ = $300 and so on. Often .5 signifies $50, so $$.5 would mean $250. |
| 411: | Information, intel. e.g. "I got the 411 on her from jessejames" |
| 420: | Marijuana. |
| 69: | Simultaneous fellatio and cunnilingus. Partners perform oral sex on each other simultaeneously. |
| A: | Anal sex. |
| Abstinence Only Curricula: | Sexuality education programs that advocate sexual abstinence before marriage. They do not provide information about contraception, safer sex, or sexual orientation. |
| Abstinence: | Refraining from all sexual activity |
| AC/DC: | Bisexual. |
| Active: | The aggressive sexual partner |
| Agate: | A small penis |
| Age of Consent: | The age at which one is considered old enough to decide to have sexual intercourse. |
| Age of Majority: | The age at which one becomes a legal adult. |
| Age play: | Role playing involving pretending to be a child and often wearing children's clothing. Adult babies. |
| Agency: | An organization or individual that manages many providers. The agency handles all calls, bookings and advertising. The agency takes a percentage of the fee for each session. |
| AIDS: | (Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome) A set of conditions associated with the last stages of HIV disease |
| A-Levels: | Anal sex. |
| Algolagnia: | Another word for sadomasochism (SM) Algolagnia is when pain is transformed into sexual pleasure |
| Alternative lifestyle: | Sexual preference that is very different from the "norm," making it necessary and/or desirable. If the alternative sexuality is less common than the norm it will push the individual to reach an accepted subculture |
| Alternative sexuality: | A sexual orientation with a few variations that differ from vaginal intercourse when a monogamous heterosexual relationship has been established |
| Alveoli: | Sacs inside the breast that produce milk |
| Amazon: | A tall, strong, often masculine woman. |
| AMP: | Asian Massage Parlor |
| Anal /Anal intercourse: | Using the rectum for Sexual Intercourse |
| Androgens: | Certain hormones that stimulate male sexual development and secondary male sex characteristics. They are most abundantly produced in the testicles of men but are also produced in small amounts in women's ovaries. The most common androgen is testosterone |
| Androgynous / Androgyny: | One who is / the quality of simultaneously exhibiting "masculine" and "feminine" characteristics. Androgyny: A person psychologically intermediate between male and female; or a person who rejects a specifically male or female gender role. |
| Anilingus: | Kissing and penetration of the anus by tongue |
| Animal play: | When one or both partners pretend to be an animal (Ex: dog, horse) in a role play |
| Anorgasmia: | The inability to have an orgasm. |
| Anus: | The opening of the rectum |
| Aphrodisiac: | A substance that is supposed to increase sexual desire |
| Areola: | The dark area surrounding the nipples of women and men |
| Around the world: | Anilingus and Fellatio. or: Kissing the entire body before sex |
| Asexual: | Absence of sexual feeling |
| Asian Cowgirl: | Woman rides on top during intercourse, squatting over the man on her feet, not on her knees. |
| Asian: | Anilingus, erotic stimulation achieved by contact between mouth and anus |
| ATF: | All Time Favorite |
| ATM: | Ass to mouth. Penis, finger or toy comes out of her ass, and goes directly into her mouth. |
| Attempts: | Trying to reach orgasm. e.g. She allowed multiple attempts: means she allows more than one orgasm per session if the client is able and interested. |
| Aunt Flo: | Menstruation also; Period |
| Auto-eroticism: | Masturbation |
| Auto-fellatio: | Performing fellation on ones own penis |
| Auto-sadism: | An act whereby one inflicts pain on oneself |
| AW0: | Anal without a condom. |
| B&S: | Bait & switch: Internet, newspaper, or phone advertisements, which may include photos, written or verbal descriptions, do not match the woman who shows up, or she has been grossly misrepresented. |
| Babyback: | Petite, young, attractive Asian woman. |
| Back scuttle: | Perform anal intercourse |
| Back yard: | The buttocks |
| Bag: | Condom, with a condom e.g. "BJ in a bag"= CBJ, |
| Bag: | The scrotum |
| Bait and Switch: | Internet, newspaper, or phone advertisements, which may include photos, written or verbal descriptions, do not match the woman who shows up, or she has been grossly misrepresented. |
| Baja Sur: | Genitals. From the spanish "the low south". |
| Balanitis: | An inflammation of the glands and foreskin of the penis that can be caused by infections (including sexually transmitted infections) irritations, drugs, or other factors. |
| Ball: | A wild sex activity |
| Balloons: | Breast implants. |
| Balls: | The testicles |
| Banana: | The penis |
| Bare-assed: | Nude |
| Bareback: | Sex Without a condom |
| Barrier: | Methods of Birth Control Contraceptives that block sperm from entering the uterus. These are the condom, vaginal pouch, diaphragm, cervical cap, and spermicide. |
| Bartholin's Glands: | Glands in the labia menorah on each side of the opening to the vagina that provide lubrication during sexual excitement. |
| Basket shopping: | Observing the male organ through clothing |
| Basket: | The bulge of male sex organ in clothing |
| BBBF: | Bareback butt fuck |
| BBBJ: | Bareback Blow Job, oral stimulation of the penis without a condom |
| BBBJTC: | Bareback Blow Job To Completion, oral stimulation of the penis to orgasm without a condom. (May spit or swallow) |
| BBF: | Bareback fuck |
| BBW: | Big Beautiful Woman, euphemism for overweight |
| BCD: | Behind Closed Doors |
| BDSM: | Bondage, Discipline, Sado-Masochism. This is a catch-all to refer to the various aspects of negotiated, mutually consensual exchange of power between two consenting adults. Regardless of the depth of the relationship, consent, safety and sanity are the cornerstone of the lifestyle. In the beginning it was called sadomasochism(sm, s/m or s&m.) People involved in sadomasochism were described as bad, sick and pervert. Since some people did not want to be called or described that way, terms like dominance and submission (d&s, ds or d/s), love bondage and bondage and discipline (b&d) were invented to be different from sadomasochists. In the 90's during the internet revolution all kinky people were establishing arguments to label their kinks. After months of arguments the term bdsm was born. Most of the kinky people were happy after the term was issued. BDSM combines bondage and discipline (bd), dominance and submission (ds) and sadomasochism (sm.) |
| Beat off: | Masturbation |
| Beefcake: | Male possessing sex appeal |
| Berdache: | Male-to-female and female-to-male cross dressers who were accepted and performed a variety of roles in various North American Indian societies. The word in its original language is negative, so one sociologist writing about these individuals has used the terms man-woman and woman-man |
| Beret: | A condom. |
| BF: | Boyfriend |
| BFE: | Boyfriend Experience, A subjective term used primarily by providers to describe good clients. |
| Biastophilia: | A paraphilia in which sexual arousal becomes dependent on sexually attacking a non consenting, surprised, terrified, and struggling stranger. This is a kind of rape, but most rapes are committed by normophilic men. |
| Bigendered: | One who switches between masculine and feminine gender roles from time to time. |
| Bimanual Exam: | Physical examination of the internal reproductive organs of the pelvis. |
| Biphobia: | The oppression or mistreatment of Bisexuals, especially by lesbians and gay men. (See homophobia.) |
| Birdwatching: | BBBJTC and she swallows. |
| Birth control: | Actions which prevent pregnancy because of sexual intercourse |
| Bisexual/Bi: | A person who has sexual and emotional relationships with both women and men, though not necessarily at the same time. |
| Bitch: | A loose woman or feminine male |
| BJ Blow job: | A strange term for fellatio |
| Blackhole: | Anus. |
| Bladder: | The organ that collects and stores urine produced by the kidney. The bladder is emptied through the urethra. |
| Blind: | An uncircumcised penis |
| Blow job: | The act of oral intercourse |
| BLS: | Ball licking and sucking. |
| Blue balls: | Severe need to experience sexual orgasm. The genital aching that may occur when men do not have an ejaculation following sexual stimulation. Women may experience similar aches if they do not reach orgasm, but because of sexist influences in development of our language about sex, there is no common expression to describe a woman's symptoms. |
| Blue Pill: | Viagra |
| Blue Steel: | Viagra |
| Body Image: | One's attitudes and feelings about one's own body and appearance. |
| Bondage and Discipline: | Also known as B&D, it involves several sexual practices like bondage, slave training, corporal punishment and dominant/submissive role play |
| Bondage: | When restraints are placed on the body in any practice to avoid any type of movement |
| Boston Marriage: | Used primarily in nineteenth century New England to refer to two women who set up a household together for an extended period of time. Some Boston marriages were undoubtedly lesbian in nature, but others were probably platonic. |
| Bring off: | Ejaculation in the male |
| Bronco: | Young boy who is difficult to restrain during sex |
| Brown shower: | Another name for hardsports |
| Brown Shower: | Defecation on your partner. |
| Brown: | To perform anal intercourse |
| Brownie queen: | Passive partner in anal intercourse |
| Brut service: | Facial, Cumming over the prostitutes ( Splash it all over ) |
| BS: | Body slide. Service where woman may slide her body on yours using oil. |
| Bugger: | To perform anal intercourse |
| Bull dagger: | An extremely masculine lesbian. The term is often used negatively. |
| Bull-dyke: | A masculine female homosexual |
| Bummer: | Active partner in anal sex |
| Buns: | The buttocks |
| Butch : | A lesbian who prefers traditionally masculine dress, style, expression, or identity. |
| Butter face: | A women whose body is very attractive, but her face is not. |
| BV (Bacterial Vaginosis): | An inflammation of the vagina (vaginitis) that is caused by a change in the balance of vaginal bacteria. |
| Call Girl: | Outcall provider, usually implies agency. |
| Camp: | Behave in an effeminate manner, an affectation usually done in humour which might involve a satirical or sarcastic depiction of the opposite sex. |
| Candida: | A type of yeast and the most common cause of vaginitis. |
| Caning: | The use of a cane on a bottom |
| Cash and Dash: | A rip-off. She shows up, takes your money, doesn't provide, might offer to "dance", and leaves. |
| Castration: | Render the testicles inoperable by surgery |
| Cat or cat o' nine tails: | Originally it was a whip used by the British Navy. Actually it is referred to all whips which are multi-thonged |
| CBJ: | CBJ, Covered Blow Job, fellatio with a condom |
| CC Rider: | A provider who is FS for $200/hr or less. |
| CC: | 1.
Roman Numeral for 200. Roman numerals sometimes
used for fees. 2. Credit Card |
| CD: Cross-dresser: | Transvestite, a person, and especially a male who adopts the dress and often the behavior typical of the opposite sex especially for purposes of emotional or sexual gratification |
| Celibacy : | Not having sex play. |
| Cervix: | The narrow lower part of the uterus (womb), with an opening connecting the uterus to the vagina. |
| CFS: | Covered Full Service |
| CG: | 1.
Cowgirl 2. Call Girl |
| Chancroid: | A sexually transmitted bacterium that causes open genital sores. |
| Change your luck: | To engage in a gay sex for the first time |
| Chaste: | To engage in ordinary sexual activities |
| Chastity Belts: | A variety of devices designed to prevent women, men, or children from having sex. Used from medieval to modern times, these devices were also supposed to preserve morality. Some were meant to ensure fidelity in women in the absence of their husbands. Others were designed to prevent masturbation and nocturnal emissions in men and boys. |
| Cheat: | To be unfaithful to one's sex partner |
| Chemical Castration: | The use of Depo-Provera to decrease sexual desire and arousal. |
| Cherry: | One who is still a virgin, |
| Chlamydia: | A common sexually transmitted organism that can cause sterility in women and men. |
| CID: | Cum in deep |
| CIF: | Cum in face |
| CIM: | Cum in mouth |
| Circumcision: | Surgical removal of the foreskin |
| Civilian: | A woman who makes herself available for sexual encounters but not for financial gain. May be less discreet than a provider and more interested in a relationship. |
| Clap: | Gonorrhoea or other venereal disease (std) |
| Climacteric: | The time of change that leads to menopause. The physiological midlife changes for women and men |
| Climax: | To achieve the high point of sex activity |
| Clit: | The clitoris |
| Clitoral Hood: | A small flap of skin that covers and protects the clitoris. |
| Clitoris : | A small erectile organ located in the forward area of the wife's vulva. Stimulation of the clitoris during foreplay and sexual intercourse can enhance the wife chances of an orgasm |
| Clockwatcher: | A term for a provider who counts the minutes until the session is over. Usually used to describe a provider who rushes and does not enjoy her work. |
| Closet queen: | A male homosexual who hides his desires for men |
| Closet: | The confining state of being secretive about one's homosexuality |
| Closeted: | Hiding one's sexuality or gender predilection from others or the public. Closet case. |
| COB | Cum on body |
| Code word(s): | Word or words that are used in personal ads to unnotice sexual proclivities mostly unacceptable in society. Ex: French or Greek culture, clean, discipline, strict, leather, etc. |
| COF: | Cum On Face. |
| Cohabitation: | Living together in a sexual relationship. |
| Coitus in ano: | Anal intercourse |
| Coitus interruptus: | Withdrawal of the penis prior to ejaculation |
| Coitus: | Sexual intercourse |
| Cold: | Unresponsive to sexual relations |
| Collar and Cuffs match: | Pubic hair matches natural hair-color (redheads, blondes) |
| Colposcope : | A viewing instrument with a bright light and magnifying lens that is used to examine the vagina and cervix. |
| Come out: | To acknowledge one's homosexuality, either to oneself or to others; most often a public declaration of being lesbian or gay. |
| Commercial Company: | Prostitution |
| Comparison: | Warm happy feelings experienced when noticing ones loved ones enjoying loving relationships with others. The opposite of jealousy |
| Completion: | Orgasm. For example, OWO to completion means until you cum |
| Conception: | The moment when the pre-embryo attaches to the lining of the uterus and pregnancy begins; term also used to describe the fertilization of the egg with a man’s sperm |
| Condom : | A sheath of thin rubber, plastic, or animal tissue that is worn on the penis during sexual intercourse. It is an over-the-counter, reversible barrier method of birth control, and it also provides protection against the most serious sexually transmitted infections. |
| Consensual : | An agreement made by parties for certain type of behaviour or activities. When the consent is informed and there is a reasonable knowledge of possible risks is called true consent. |
| Continence: | To refrain from sexual activity |
| Contraceptive: | The prevention of pregnancy; birth control. |
| Corona: | Rim of flesh which forms the base of the head of penis |
| Corpus Cavernosa: | Two strips of tissue that lie on each side of the urethra in the penis. During sexual excitement, they fill with blood to create an erection. |
| Corpus Spongiosum: | The tissue that surrounds the urethra inside the penis and is responsible, like the corpus cavernosa, for an erection; also the type of tissue that forms the glands of the clitoris and the penis. |
| Cover: | A condom |
| Covered: | Various measures, such as the use of condoms or dental dams, are taken to avoid diseases (as AIDS) transmitted by sexual contact. (e.g. Covered Blow Job means a condom was used.) |
| Cowgirl : | A position for sexual intercourse - the man on his back, the woman sitting on top. |
| Cowper's Glands: | The glands beneath the prostate gland that are attached to the urethra. They produce a substance that makes seminal fluid sticky. |
| CP : | Corporal punishment. You used to be able to get this in return for stealing things, but it doesn't work that way any more |
| Crabs: | Lice which infect the pubic area of the body |
| Creampie: | Ejaculation in the vagina (or anus) without a condom |
| Cremaster Reflex : | An automatic response to stimulation (for example, cold temperature or touching the inside of the thigh) in which the cremaster muscle pulls the scrotum and testes closer to the body. |
| Crime scene action: | Sexual activity during her period. |
| Cross dresser : | A person who occasionally dresses in the clothing of the opposite sex for sexual or emotional pleasure, or both. The most commonly-used term, having replaced transvestite. May be male or female, hetero- or homosexual, bi- or solo sexual, and may partially or wholly cross-dress. |
| Cross-dressing: | The practice of dressing in clothes traditionally assigned to the opposite gender; also called transvestitism or drag. |
| Cruising: | Looking for prostitutes while driving. |
| Cryptorchidism: | The condition in which one or both of the testicles do not descend from the lower abdomen before puberty. |
| Cum : | Semen |
| Cum facial : | Same as facial |
| Cunnilingus: | Stimulation of the woman’s genital area, especially the clitoris, with the husband's lips and tongue. |
| Cups of coffee: | Orgasms (e.g. multiple cups of coffee means she allows more than one orgasm) |
| CWM: | CyberWhoreMonger. A punter who uses the Internet in connection with his paid-sex activities. This is mainly an American term, and contrasts with CyberCourtesan. |
| Dance and Dash: | A rip-off. She shows up, takes your money, doesn't provide, might offer to "dance", and leaves. |
| Date Rape Drug: | Rohypnol (generic name flunitrazepam) has been associated with date rape, and has also been called the "Forget Pill," "Trip-and-Fall," and "Mind-Erasers." In combination with alcohol, it can induce a blackout with memory loss and a decrease in resistance. Girls and women around the country have reported being raped after being involuntarily sedated with Rohypnol, which was often slipped into their drink by an attacker. The drug has no taste or odor so the victims don't realize what is happening. About ten minutes after ingesting the drug, the woman may feel dizzy and disoriented, simultaneously too hot and too cold, or nauseated. She may experience difficulty speaking and moving, and then pass out. Such victims have no memories of what happened while under the drug's influence. |
| Date Rape: | Date rape or acquaintance rape is a form of sexual assault that happens specifically on a date or by someone that the victim knows or is acquainted with somehow. |
| Date: | 1.
A session with a prostitute. 2. A man who patronizes prostitutes. |
| DATO: | Dining at the O, Anilingus, oral stimulation of the anus |
| DATY: | Dining at the Y, Cunnilingus, oral stimulation of the vulva or clitoris |
| DDE: | Doesn't do extras. |
| DDG: | Drop Dead Gorgeous. |
| Deep throat: | Fellatio where the whole length of the penis is "swallowed" |
| Defender: | A poster who defends or "comes to the rescue" of a provider who has been reviewed poorly, regardless of whether the review is accurate. |
| Delayed Ejaculation: | Commonly used term for inhibited orgasm in men. |
| Delta Omega Gamma: | DOG. |
| Depo-Provera®: | A progestin that is injected into the buttock or arm every 12 weeks to prevent pregnancy. It is a reversible method of birth control. |
| Deposit: | A provider requires an upfront payment in advance of a session. Deposits are usually used by providers as a screening tool to hedge against no-shows. |
| DFK: | Deep French Kissing, kissing with tongue |
| Diaphragm: | A soft rubber dome intended to fit securely over the cervix. Used with contraceptive cream or jelly, the diaphragm is a reversible barrier method of birth control available only by prescription. |
| Dirt: | Sex slave members who's checks bounce |
| Discipline: | The other part of Bondage (B&D) that could also mean punishment or a structured training of a submissive. |
| Doggie Style: | Intercourse position where woman is on her hands and knees, man enters from behind |
| Dominance: | dominance and submission, D/S, D&S Used for erotic enhancement, one partner uses consensual empowerment for the other partner. In SM, dominance and submission are the psychological and emotional underpinnings. |
| Dominant, Dom, Domme, Domina, Dominatrix: | The person that in a consensual exchange of power is in charge. If the person is a male is called dominant or Dom; if is a female is called a Domme, Domina or Dominatrix |
| Don Juanism: | The desire by a man to have sex very frequently with many different partners. |
| Donation: | Payment to a provider |
| Dose: | Gonorrhoea or other venereal disease (std) |
| Doubles: | A threesome with two providers |
| Douche: | A spray of water or solution of medication into the vagina. |
| DP : | 1.
Double penetration, one penis in the vagina,
another in the anus 2. Digital penetration |
| Drag queen: | Male who dresses in female clothing |
| Dry fuck: | Moving against one another, clothed to simulate intercourse |
| DSL | Dick sucking lips |
| DT: | Deep throat: fellatio where the whole length of the penis is "swallowed". |
| Dyad: | A sexual love relationship consisting of two primary partners |
| Dyke: | A lesbian |
| Dyspareunia: | Painful intercourse for women that may be caused by hormonal imbalances, especially those that happen after menopause. |
| Early Ejaculation: | Ejaculation occurring before a man wants it to occur. |
| Eat: | To perform oral intercourse |
| Ectopic Pregnancy: | A life-threatening pregnancy that develops outside the uterus, often in a fallopian tube. |
| Ed Zachary disease: | A woman with an unattractive face. |
| Effeminate: | Descriptive of a male who acts in a feminine manner |
| Egg: | The reproductive cell in women; the largest cell in the human body. |
| Ejaculation: | Discharge from the penis during sexual climax |
| Ejaculatory Inevitability: | The moment during sexual excitement when a man cannot stop his ejaculation. The prostate begins contracting and pulsing out seminal fluid. |
| Ellie: | LE, Law Enforcement |
| Emergency Contraception: | The use of oral contraceptives or IUDs to prevent pregnancy after unprotected intercourse. |
| Emergency Hormonal Contraception: | The use of oral contraceptives to prevent pregnancy after unprotected intercourse. |
| Enema: | An instrument or injecting fluid into the anus to flush the lower intestines. In SM scenes enemas are used for humiliation, for preparation for other activities (fisting or anal sex) and/or for pleasure. |
| Enhancements: | Breast implants. |
| Envelope: | Often cash payments for a provider are placed in an envelope. Rather than handing her cash directly, or discussing money, the envelope is left in a conspicuous location for the provider to pick up as she leaves (outcall), or after the hobbyist leaves (incall). |
| EOM: | End of Message - Used in a subject line to indicate no further content in body of message, |
| Epididymis: | The tube in which sperm mature. It is tightly coiled on top of and behind each testis. The plural of Epididymis is epididymides. |
| Epididymitis: | An inflammation of the Epididymis |
| Erectile Dysfunction : | The inability to become erect or maintain an erection with a partner. |
| Erection : | The sexual aroused state cause by a rush of blood into the veins and capillaries of the penis, coupled with a valve action which prevents its release, and further aided by the contraction of certain surface muscles on the penis, all of which combine to keep it in a hard and extended configuration until the stimuli is taken away or ejaculation occurs |
| Erogenous Zone: | Any area of the body very sensitive to sensual touch. |
| Erotic restraint: | When movement is restricted for erotic play. It is also referred to the devices used |
| Erotic: | That which is sexually arousing. |
| Erotica: | Sexually arousing imagery that is not considered pornographic, obscene, or offensive to the average person. |
| Erotophilia : | Appreciation of the erotic |
| Erotophobia: | Fear and anxiety about the erotic. |
| Escort: | A person who is paid for companionship and may offer Sex |
| Estrogen: | A hormone commonly made in a woman's ovaries. Estrogens major effects are seen during puberty, menstruation, and pregnancy |
| Eunuch: | A male who has had his testicles removed |
| Exhibitionism: | A paraphilia in which sexual arousal becomes dependent on exposing the sex organs to those who will be surprised. |
| Exhibitionist: | A person who derives sexual gratification by displaying his body to others |
| Extraball | Have sex more times |
| F->M: | Female to male. Used to specify the direction of a sex or gender role change. |
| Face painting: | Man ejaculates on woman's face. |
| Facial: | Man ejaculates on woman's face. |
| Faeces: | Solid waste that leaves the body through the anus. |
| Fake Orgasm : | The pretence of having reached climax in order to end sex play or please a partner. |
| Family jewels: | The testicles |
| Fanny: | UK: Same as pussy, cunny, quim, etc. US: buttocks |
| FBSM: | Full Body Sensual Massage; not usually full service; expect only massage (usually nude or topless) and handjob, but more services might be available. |
| Fellatio: | To kiss, nibble, lick or cock-sucking |
| Female Circumcision: | The practice of removing a girl's clitoral hood, clitoris, and/or the labia; often called female genital mutilation. This is practiced in some African, Near Eastern, and Southeast Asian cultures. |
| Female Impersonator (FI): | A male who, on specific occasions, cross dresses and employs stereotypical feminine dialog, voice, and mannerisms for the entertainment of other people. |
| Feminine: | The "gender role" assigned to "females". |
| Fetish : | Excessive or irrational devotion to some activity, a sexual interest in an object or a part of the body which someone is interested in to an extreme degree of worship with excessive devotion |
| Fetishistic Transvestite: | A Transvestite who consistently eroticizes Cross Dressing. May also eroticize fantasies of gender/sex change. |
| Fifth wheel: | A heterosexual in a homosexual group |
| Fisting: | The art of inserting the whole hand inside the vagina or anus |
| Five-O: | A police officer (uniformed or undercover). |
| FJ: | Foot job. Stimulation of the penis using feet and toes. |
| Flagellation: | Whipping or beating to sexual orgasm |
| Flake, Flaky: | Errant behavior, often used for providers who no-show and/or have scheduling issues. |
| FOC: | Free of charge |
| Foot fetish/ Foot worship: | Sexual obsession toward feet or shoes |
| Foreplay: | Physical and sexual stimulation (kissing, touching, stroking, and massaging) that often happens in the excitement stage of sexual response; often occurs before intercourse, but can lead to orgasm without intercourse. |
| Foreskin: | A retractable tube of skin that covers and protects the glands of the penis. |
| FOTC: | Fuck of the century. |
| FR: | Field report, a written report of an experience with a prostitute by a client |
| French kissing: | Deep kissing, tongue kissing. |
| French: | French sex. Another term for fellatio. |
| French: | Oral sex, on either party |
| FS: | Full Service, Vaginal intercourse to completion |
| FTM: | female to male, as in cross-dressing or a transsexual |
| Full house: | Having more than one venereal disease (std) at the same time |
| Full meal deal: | Full Service, Vaginal intercourse to completion |
| Full service : | Bit vague, but generally means full sex and fellatio |
| Full sex: | Vaginal intercourse |
| Full strip: | Should mean that she takes all her clothes off - but beware that she may have a different idea of the meaning. |
| FWO: | French without [a condom]. Same as OWO or BBBJ. |
| Gang-bang: | An occasion on which several men successively have sexual intercourse with one woman, Usually organised parties |
| Gay: | Homosexual |
| Gaydar: | The uncanny and seemingly innate ability lesbians and gay men tend to have to recognize and detect one another; from gay and radar. |
| Gear: | Any equipment used for scene purposes |
| Gender (identity) community: | People who identify as transvestite, transsexual, or Tran gendered, or as members of the gender community. Members of the gender community do not necessarily identify as members of the sexual minority community. (See "transgender community".) |
| Gender Dysphoria (GD): | Unhappiness or discomfort experienced by one whose sexual organs do not match one's gender identity. |
| Gender Identity: | The self-perception of being male or female, or a combination of the two. |
| Gender neutral : | Clothing, behaviours, thoughts, feelings, relationships, etc. which are considered appropriate for members of both sexes. |
| Gender outlaw: | A person who flouts the usual gender roles. |
| Gender role: | Arbitrary rules, assigned by society, that define what clothing, behaviours, thoughts, feelings, relationships, etc. are considered appropriate and inappropriate for members of each sex. Some clothing, behaviours, etc. are considered appropriate for members of both sexes. Which things are considered masculine, feminine, or neutral varies ccording to location, class, occasion, and numerous other factors. |
| Gender: | The social-cultural expression of a person's biological sex (or self-perception of one's sex, which may vary from the strictly biological). Sometimes used to mean expressly male or female. |
| Genderfuck: | Sending mixed gender messages, especially through appearance, such as wearing a prom dress, combat boots and a moustache. |
| Genitals: | The human reproductive organs |
| Get comfortable: | Get naked. For security reasons, a provider may ask a client to "get comfortable" or "make yourself comfortable" before a session, this means to get fully undressed. |
| GFE: | Girl Friend Experience, the prostitute provides a girlfriend type experience. A subjective term, but usually used as praise for a very passionate, sensual, non-mechanical experience. Most consider deep french kissing a baseline requirement for GFE. |
| Give head: | To perform oral intercourse |
| Glans: | The soft, highly sensitive tip of the clitoris or penis. In men, the urethral opening is located in the glands. |
| Glove: | Condom |
| Go down on: | To perform oral intercourse |
| Golden shower: | Another name for watersports. One person urinates on another for sexual pleasure. |
| Gonorrhoea : | A sexually transmitted bacterium that can cause sterility, arthritis, and heart problems. (std) |
| Greek: | Anal Sex |
| GS: | Golden Shower, urinating on your partner, urine play. |
| G-string : | A small brief worn over the genitals |
| H/S: | Hardsports |
| Half & half: | An American term for French and sex. |
| Hand Job: | Stimulation of the penis using hand and fingers |
| Hard on: | An erect penis |
| Hardsports: | Defecation in a sexual context. Usually means that the prostitute shits over the client, or at least for the client to watch. |
| Hardwood floors: | Clean-shaven pubic area. |
| HBV (Hepatitis B Virus): | An infection that can be sexually transmitted and may cause severe liver disease and death. |
| Herb Friendly: | Is amenable to marijuana use. |
| Hermaphrodite: | One who has both a penis and a vagina. |
| Heterosexism: | The assumption that identifying as heterosexual and having sexual and romantic attractions only to members of the other sex (than oneself) is good and acceptable, and that other sexual identities and attractions are bad and unacceptable. The assumption that anyone is straight whose sexual orientation is not known, usually |
| coupled with a "blindness" to the existence and concerns of Lesbians/Bi/Gays | |
| Heterosexual: | One who has significant sexual and romantic attractions primarily to members of the opposite sex. |
| Hidden Charges: | A provider takes the advertised fee upfront, but midway through the session she asks for more money for more services. (e.g. She might undress and give a massage for the advertised $$, but then ask for an additional $ for French, or $$ for FS, etc.) |
| Hindu Massage (Argentina): | The woman contracts her vaginal muscles during sex to squeeze you to completion. |
| HIV: | (Human Immunodeficiency Virus) An infection that weakens the body's ability to fight disease and can cause AIDS. |
| HJ: | Hand Job, stimulation of the penis using hand and fingers |
| HM: | High mileage. |
| HME: | Honeymoon experience. A subjective term used as praise for a very intense, very "real" session, usually DFK is a baseline requirement for HME. |
| Hobby : | The "hobby" is punting, the patronizing of prostitutes. |
| Hobbyist: | A man who patronizes prostitutes. A (habitual) punter |
| Homophobe: | One who is afraid of or oppresses people because one (perceives them to) have sexual and romantic attractions to members of the same sex. |
| Homophobia: | Literally, the fear of homosexuals and homosexuality, sometimes merely implied, but often taken to the point where biased statements are made or biased actions are taken against lesbians and gay men. |
| Homosexual: | One who desires sex only with the same sex |
| Hooker: | Prostitute. |
| Hormone therapy: | Used to change secondary sex characteristics, including breast size, weight distribution, and facial hair growth. |
| Horny: | Sexually aroused; passionate |
| Horse around : | To explore sexually without engaging in intercourse |
| Hostess Club: | A lower end strip club where bargaining for sex acts with the dancers is acceptable, and some activities may occur on premises. |
| HPV: | (Human Papilloma Virus) Any of 90 different types of infection, some of which may cause genital warts. Others may cause cancer of the cervix, vulva, or penis. |
| HR: | Hand Release, stimulation of the penis to orgasm using hand and fingers |
| HSV: | (Herpes Simplex Virus) An infection that can be sexually transmitted and cause a recurring rash with clusters of blistery sores on the vagina, cervix, penis, mouth, anus, buttocks, or elsewhere on the body. |
| Humiliation: | Part of the erotic control to embarrass or to humble someone by teasing them about their sexual desires. In SM humiliation, ironically, can build a person's self-esteem by reinforcing their sexuality. |
| Hustler: | Prostitute that searches for customers |
| HWP: | Height and Weight Proportional (i.e. "normal" build) |
| Hyperphilia: | Having sex more often than most people. |
| Hypoactive: | Sexual Desire The lack of sexual desire. |
| I filled the bag: | Orgasm. |
| Identify/ied (as) : | To think of oneself as having a particular sexual identity or gender identity: [I "identify as" a bisexual. I am bi-"identified".] To emphasise that an identity term refers to one's internal reality, as opposed to what others think or observe of one, "self-identify" is sometimes used. |
| Identity: | How one thinks of oneself. One's internal self, as opposed to what others observe or think about one. |
| Impotent: | Unable to engage in sexual intercourse |
| Incall: | Where the client visits the prostitute. Opposite of outcall. (Could be hotel, motel, studio apt, her residence, or a mini-storage unit) |
| Inclusive relationship : | An intimate sexual love relationship in which all partners have agreed to form a synergistic group and in which each dyad is warm and trusting. The existing relationship may expand to include more people with mutual consent. |
| Independent, Indie: | An escort who works on her own, without an agency affiliation. The escort manages her own calls, bookings, advertising and finances. |
| Infantilism: | Infant-like behaviour in role play by wearing diapers, nursing, etc |
| Interpreter: | Condom (e.g. She spoke French without the aid of an interpreter = BBBJ) |
| Intersexual: | A person biologically between female and male, sometimes with genital and/or reproductive body parts of both sexes. Replaces hermaphrodite. At one time meant homosexual |
| IPO: | Initial public offering: used to denote the public introduction of a new provider, usually via a review. |
| ISO: | In search of |
| Italian: | Similar to Russian, but penis between partners butt cheeks. |
| Jack off/ jerk off: | To masturbate |
| Jack Shack: | Refers to an establishment (massage parlor, lingerie modelling) that is not usually full service; expect only massage (usually nude or topless) and handjob, but more services might be available. |
| Jealous: | Resentfully envious or suspicious of rival influences. |
| Jealousy: | Neurotic anxiety based on fear of losing control over a partner one regards as a possession. |
| Jimmy Hat: | A condom |
| Jock Itch: | A very common fungal skin infection in the genital area of men that is caused by wearing tight clothing, sweating, or not drying the genitals carefully after bathing. It can cause a reddish, scaly rash that can become inflamed, very itchy, and painful. |
| John: | A man who patronizes prostitutes, also known as client or punter |
| Kicks: | Sexual thrills |
| L/A/S: | Looks/Attitude/Service: A subjective ranking system. Each criteria separately ranked, from lowest (1) to highest (10). Examples: 2/9/8 = Unnattractive, but very friendly and good sex. 10/5/4 = Model material, but a poor attitude, and mediocre sex. |
| Label: | How someone else sees or thinks of oneself or others. |
| Lace curtains: | The foreskin of the penis |
| Landing Strip: | Description of pubic hair |
| Latex: | Material used to make fetish items like clothing |
| Lavender: | Pertaining to the homosexual lifestyle |
| Lay : | To perform sexual intercourse |
| LE: | Law Enforcement. |
| Leather, Leather sex, Leather lifestyle: | A synonym for SM used in fetish fashion and gear. |
| Lesbian: | A female homosexual. A woman who has significant sexual and romantic attractions to members of the same sex, or who identifies as a member of the lesbian community. Bisexual women often do not feel included by this term. |
| LFK: | Light french kissing. (no heavy tongue) |
| Libido: | Sexual appetite |
| Limit: | In SM are the boundaries set by the dominant and the submissive for what to will or to will not do within a scene. Limits must be respected and applied to roles, levels of dominance and submission, time and also activities like whipping and paddling. |
| Little blue helper: | Viagra |
| Little blue pill: | Viagra |
| LMP: | Licensed Massage Practitioner |
| Load: | The fluid from an ejaculation |
| Lot Lizard: | A prostitute that works primarily in truck stop parking lots (usually soliciting from a CB radio). |
| LT: | Long term |
| LTR: | Long term relationship |
| M->F: | Male to female. Used to specify the direction of a sex or gender role change. |
| Macho: | Describing extreme masculinity which may involve the subordination of women. Machismo. |
| Madame: | Proprietress of an agency. |
| Male Impersonator: | A female who, on specific occasions, cross dresses and employs stereotypical masculine dialog, voice, and mannerisms for the entertainment of other people. |
| Mall, Escort Mall: | A website that advertises many different providers. The providers may be independent or agency, and may or may not be associated with each other, or with the mall. |
| Man in a boat, little man in a boat: | Clitoris |
| Masculine: | A highly subjective concept of the essential qualities of a man. |
| Masochism: | Where sexual gratification is achieved by pain |
| Massage parlour: | Usually a brothel. This is illegal in the UK but is tolerated in many areas - although official toleration, as in Edinburgh, is rare. |
| Master: | When the man takes control in the SM role play. |
| Masturbation: | Manual manipulation of genitals |
| Matinee: | A sex session in the afternoon |
| Mediterranean: | Anal sex e.g. "She took me on a trip to the mediterranean." |
| Merkin: | Pubic hair wig. |
| MFS: | Massage and full sex |
| MG: | Massage Girl |
| Mileage: | A subjective term that describes value for money and/or how accomodating she is. Good mileage usually means she either charges less than average, provides better L/A/S than average, or both. |
| MILF: | Mom I'd like to fuck. |
| Mish: | Missionary position, Man on top during intercourse |
| Missionary position, Missionary: | Woman on her back, man on top facing her |
| Mistress: | When the woman takes control in the SM role play. |
| MMF, MFM, MFF: | Threesome designations. e.g. MMF = male, male, female MFF = male, female, female. |
| MMF: | A male-male-female threesome |
| Mohawk: | Description of pubic hair. |
| Molluscum Contagiosum: | A virus that can be sexually transmitted, causing small, pinkish-white, waxy, round, polyp like growths in the genital area or on the thighs. |
| Môn gendered: | One who is comfortable in only one gender role? (Do people actually use this, or is it just a syntactic extension of "bi gendered"?) |
| Môn sexual: | One who has significant sexual and romantic attractions primarily to members of one sex. Straight, Gay, Lesbian. Someone who is not Bisexual |
| Morning-After Pills: | Emergency hormonal contraception that is taken within 72 hours of unprotected intercourse. |
| MP: | Massage Parlor |
| MPA: | Massage Parlor Attendant |
| MSOG: | Multiple shots on goal: She allows you to have more than 1 orgasm during the session |
| MTF: | Male to female, as in cross-dressing or a transsexual. |
| Multiple Orgasms: | More than one orgasm occurring within the same sexual encounter. |
| Multiple Pops: | She allows you to have more than 1 orgasm during the session (e.g. more than one or multiple pops allowed) |
| Mutual masturbation: | Where partners manipulate each other's genitals |
| Narcissism: | One who is stimulated by one's own body |
| Newbie: | A novice hobbyist or novice provider. |
| Nooner: | A lunch-time or afternoon session, popular with married hobbyists. |
| No-Show: | Escort or Client never shows up for an appointment, does not contact in advance to cancel or warn. |
| No-Touch: | No touching allowed. (e.g. No-touch Jack shack, no-touch strip club) |
| Novice: | A person with lack of experience in SM, but willing to learn. |
| NQBC: | Non-quitter, but covered. CBJ to completion. |
| NQBS: | Non-quitter, but spitter. BBBJTC and spits your ejaculate. |
| NQNS: | Non-quitter, non-spitter. BBBJTC and swallows your ejaculate. |
| Nuts: | The testicles |
| Nymphomania: | The desire by a woman to have sex very frequently with many different partners. |
| O, Os: | 1.
Orgasm, orgasms. 2. Oral sex |
| Obscenity: | Sexually arousing imagery that is considered socially offensive. |
| Off-the-clock: | Activities that occur with a provider that she chooses not to charge for. (e.g. "We had lunch off-the-clock") |
| Old dirt road: | Using the anus for intercourse |
| O-levels: | Oral sex |
| One way: | Will perform only one type of sexual activity |
| Operation Flea Collar: | 2 year LE investigation of TBD board, culminating in June 2002 bust of Charles Kelly and Steve Lipson, owners and operators of TBD board. |
| Oral : | Oral sex. Either fellatio or cunnilingus - usually the former in the context of punter talk. |
| Oral intercourse: | A sexual activity whereby the mouth of one per-is used in connection with the sexual organs of another person to produce sex gratification |
| Orgasm: | The peak of sensation during sexual activity |
| Other : | sex/gender The other sex or gender than the reference person's own. [She has another sex partner (than her own sex).] [Are you currently in a relationship with a member of the same sex (as yourself)?] |
| OTK: | Over the knee (spanking) |
| Out [someone] : | 1.
To disclose a second person's sexual identity
to a third person, especially without the
second person's permission. 2. To disclose one's own sexual identity, sometimes without choosing to do so. |
| Out, Outed: | Private, personal information on a hobbyist or provider is made public. e.g. Someone's real name and address is posted to a public forum. |
| Outcall: | Where the prostitute visits the client's home or hotel. Opposite of incall |
| Outer course: | Sex play that does not include inserting the penis in the vagina or anus. |
| OWO: | Oral Without, fellatio without a condom. Same as FWO or BBBJ. |
| Paedophilia: | Sexual love/attraction of a child by an adult |
| Party hat: | Condom |
| Passing : | Cross-dressing well enough to be seen as a member of the opposite sex. |
| Passive: | The person receiving intercourse |
| Pearl diver: | One who performs oral sex on the penis |
| Pearl Necklace: | Man ejaculates on woman's neck and/or chest |
| Pederasty: | Insertion of the penis into the anus |
| Peeping tom: | A voyeur |
| Pegging: | A woman wearing a strap-on dildo to penetrate a male or female anus. |
| Penis: | The male sex organ consisting of head, shaft and base |
| Perineum : | The area between the anus and testicles, anus and vagina |
| Petticoat discipline: | Punishing or humiliating a boy by dressing him as a girl. |
| PID: | (Pelvic Inflammatory Disease) An infection of a woman's internal reproductive system that can lead to sterility, Ectopic pregnancy, and chronic pain. It is often caused by sexually transmitted infections such as gonorrhoea and Chlamydia. |
| Pimp: | A man who solicits clients for a prostitute. |
| Play: | Taking part of a SM scene or scene activity. |
| Pony training: | Transformation of a male or female into a pony to be ridden, to pull a carriage or a well-trained horse in obedience |
| Pooner: | A hobbyist who is immersed in the hobby culture. e.g. He may be very involved with the review boards and/or private exchange of information on providers and the hobby. |
| Pops, multiple: | She allows you to have more than 1 orgasm during the session (e.g. more than one or multiple pops allowed) |
| POS: | Pussy on the Side |
| Power exchange: | Sexual role-playing when one acts as the dominant and the other the submissive. |
| Pre-cum juice: | Natural lube which oozes from the penis piss-slit |
| Pre-operative transsexual : | (Pre-op TS) One who is actively planning to switch physical sexes, mostly to relieve "gender dysphoria". Probably, but not necessarily, "cross dresses", takes "hormone |
| therapy", and gets "electrolysis". | |
| Primary relationship: | A committed, long term, live in sexual love relationship which may or may not include marriage and/or shared economy. |
| Primary sex organs: | Penis (male) or vagina (female.) (See "female", "male", "hermaphrodite", "neuter".) |
| Pro: | A prostitute |
| Professional or Businessmen only: | A subjective request used in provider advertising as a pre-screen for clients. The provider posts this in hopes of attracting "better" clientele. |
| Prostate: | Glands at base of urethra which ejects semen |
| Provider: | Prostitute, Sex Worker |
| PS: | Private Show (Dance only) |
| PSE: | Porn Star Experience, a subjective term, used as praise for a provider that might have a high energy level, a particularly hot look, or is very accomodating ("nastiness" factor). |
| Punter: | A prostitute's client |
| Pushover: | Easily persuaded to engage in sex |
| PV: | Private viewing: Dancing, modeling, perhaps a HJ; not usually FS. |
| PVC: | Poly-vinyl-chloride Plastic used for fetish clothing or pipes used for bondage devices. |
| Queen: | An effeminate male homosexual |
| Quickie : | A very brief sex act |
| Raincoat: | Condom |
| Rape: | Forcibly perform sexual intercourse |
| Rectum: | The tube between the colon and the anus |
| REQ:: | Request: Used in the subject line of a post to indicate the body contains a request for information. |
| REV:: | Review: Used in the subject line of a post to indicate the body contains review of a provider. |
| Reverse : | Means the opposite way round to that which is most common between a prostitute and her client. For example, "reverse oral" means cunnilingus and "reverse massage" means the client massaging the prostitute. |
| Reverse Cowgirl: | woman rides on top, facing away |
| Reverse massage: | The client massages the provider. |
| Reverse Oral: | The client performs oral sex on the provider. |
| Review: | A critical evaluation of a provider. May include information on her looks, attitude and service. |
| Rim/ Rimming/Rimjob: | Anilingus, when one person licks and kisses their partner's anus like oral sex on a female, except to the anus instead of the vagina |
| Ring On Pinky: | Wearing a ring on the little finger of the left hand has for much of the twentieth century been a code for homosexuality |
| RLD: | Red-light district |
| Rubber: | A condom |
| Rubdown | Body to body massage |
| Russian : | A tit fuck, penis between her breasts |
| Sadism, sadist: | Sexual pleasure that results from pain, humiliation and/or domination. The sadist delivers pain or humiliation to the people desiring it by respecting their limits and by being caring and careful. |
| Sadomasochism, SM: | Sexual practices in an advanced level where pain , humiliation and power exchange are being used. SM has also dominance and submission, bondage and discipline, love bondage and erotic spanking. |
| Safe Word: | A previously agreed upon signal that means a partner is no longer enjoying a sexual activity and it must stop. |
| Safe, sane and consensual: | In the SM community are characteristics of acceptable play. During activities, players take safety precautions or they do not participate in practice that could injure mentally or physically their partners. Before the activities they consent by negotiating. |
| Safe, Safer Sex, Safer: | Sexual activity in which various measures, such as the use of condoms or dental dams, are taken to avoid disease (as AIDS) transmitted by sexual contact. e.g. All activities were safe. |
| San Juan Capistrano: | BBBJTC and she swallows. |
| Sandbag, Sandbagger: | A subjective term for a review (or reviewer) that misleads the reader by giving unwarranted praise to a provider. |
| Sandwich: | Another term for DP |
| Sans: | Without. e.g. She provided french sans beret = BBBJ |
| Scat: | Defecation on your partner or feces play. Another term for hardsports. |
| Scene: | The SM or fetish community or a SM session or occurrence during play. |
| Score: | To achieve sexual intercourse |
| Screening: | A provider or agency does a pre-session background check on a new client. e.g. collecting verifiable personal info such as the hobbyist's real name, place of employment, home or work phone, home or work address, or a referral from a trusted provider. Upfront deposits may also be used as a screening tool to hedge against no-shows. |
| Screw: | The act of sexual intercourse |
| Scrotum : | The pouch or sac which contains the testicles |
| Search Function: | A software feature that allows a user to search a review board or forum, based on a keyword or words. Most often, this feature is used to find existing reviews of a provider, or to check the review history of a hobbyist. |
| Secondary relationship: | An ongoing sexual love relationship in which the partners usually do not live together, and do not consider their relationship a first priority |
| Self-post: | A provider or agency poses as a hobbyist, and posts a highly positive review of herself or agency to increase business. |
| Self-Service: | Masturbation. e.g. "It was a self-service jack shack" = no contact with the dancer, but the man can masturbate. |
| Semen: | The fluid produced during ejaculation of the male |
| Sensual Massage: | Not usually full service; expect only massage (usually nude or topless) and handjob, but more services might be available. |
| Session: | Paid time spent with a provider. |
| Sex hormones: | Substances produced by the testes, ovaries and adrenal glands in different quantities in females and males which promote bodily sexual characteristics. Certain hormones artificially taken by men can grow breasts. Other hormones taken by women can grow facial hair and lower the voice. |
| Sex reassignment surgery (SRS): | Surgery to change, within the limits of surgical possibility, a person's genitals to those of the other sex (and retain the possibility of sexual stimulation). In male-to-female conversion, the penis is converted to a vagina. In female-to-male conversion, the challenge has been to create a version of a penis |
| Sex Worker: | One who is paid for providing sex or sexually arousing conditions, including prostitution, striptease, lap dancing, commercial phone sex, and erotic massage. |
| Sex: | On its own often means vaginal intercourse |
| Sexual identity: | How one perceives oneself as male, female, or in between. A biological female may identify as a male and vice versa. |
| Sexual love: | The synergic fusing of love and sexuality into a single erotic emotion in an intimate relationship. |
| Sexual orientation: | How a person chooses to have sex -- with the same or opposite sex, with both, with oneself, or not at all (asexual). |
| Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STD’s) : | Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs): Infections that are often or usually passed from one person to another during sexual or intimate contact. |
| SFH: | Sex for hire. |
| SG: | Street girl. |
| Shemale: | Transexual, particularly one who is living as a woman, but hasn't had SRS. Penis may or may not get erect. |
| Shill: | A hobbyist who writes unwarranted positive reviews in exchange for discounts or special favors from an agency or provider. |
| Shots on goal: | Attempts to reach orgasm. e.g. She allowed multiple shots on goal: Means she allows more than one orgasm per session if the client is able and interested. |
| Significant Other: | One's chosen romantic partner. |
| Sixty Nine, 69: | Partners perform oral sex on each other simultaeneously. |
| Slam, Slammed: | An unwarranted harsh review or abusive criticism of a provider. |
| Slave : | A submissive that is involved in a slave/master fantasy. |
| Slave training: | The instruction of a submissive in a dominant's preference. The submissive’s behaviour is conditioned. |
| SM Sado-masochism.: | See also BDSM |
| Smash: | A young woman's crush on another woman. The term was used in late nineteenth century and early twentieth century women's colleagues. |
| Smegma: | White matter which collects under the foreskin of penis |
| Snowballing: | The action of kissing to exchange cum immediately after CIM. |
| SO: | Significant other. |
| Sodomy : | The insertion of the penis into the anus |
| SOG: | Shots on goal, attempts at orgasm. |
| Soixante neuf: | 69: Partners perform oral sex on each other simultaeneously. |
| Solid sports: | Another term for hardsports. |
| Solo sexual : | Having a preference for sex with one's self (a term invented by Valory Gravois; please advise if there is a better existing word) |
| SOMF: | Sat on my face. |
| South of the border: | Genital region. |
| Southern France: | Fellatio without a condom. |
| SP: | Service Provider, prostitute. |
| Spanish (Australian): | Penis between her breasts, Russian. |
| Spanish (USA): | Penis, finger or toy comes out of her ass, and goes directly into her mouth. |
| Spanking: | Striking or paddling a submissive in their butts. |
| Sperm: | The fluid that erupts from the penis during ejaculation |
| Spinner: | A very petite provider. Etymology: From the 1970's toy, "Sit 'n' Spin" |
| Spoons: | A position for sexual intercourse - both partners lying on their side, with the man behind the woman. |
| Squirting, Squirter,: | Female ejaculation, a provider who ejaculates |
| SRS: | Sexual reassignment surgery |
| Stallion : | A male who possesses a very large penis |
| STD: | Sexually transmitted disease. |
| Sting: | A female police officer poses as a prostitute to apprehend unsuspecting johns, or a male police officer poses as a john to apprehend unsuspecting prostitutes. |
| Straight sex: | Vaginal intercourse |
| Straight: | A heterosexual |
| Street action: | Prostitution that is solicited on public streets. Prostitutes (usually on foot) are picked up by Johns in motor vehicles. Sexual acts may occur in the vehicle, or at another agreed upon location. |
| Stroll: | A street, strip, or neighborhood that sees heavy street action. |
| Stud: | A male who is in great demand as a sex partner |
| Suck off: | To perform oral intercourse on the penis |
| Sugar daddy: | A man who keeps a younger person for sexual favours |
| Summer teeth: | Her teeth, some are there, some are not. |
| Sunshine, sunny: | Without a condom (i.e. No raincoat) |
| SW: | 1.
Street walker. 2. Sex Worker |
| Swallows: | Means that she swallows your cum |
| Swinger: | One who accepts free love doctrine |
| Swish: | A male who behaves in a feminine manner |
| Switch hitter: | A bi-sexual |
| Switch: | 1. When
a person trades places in a SM role or physical
play. Ex: top or bottom, Dom or sub. 2. It is also a tree or bush branch used for corporal punishment. |
| SWO: | Sex without [a condom]. Same as BBF |
| Sybian: | A mechanical sex device that is in the shape of half-barrel with a dildo attachment mounted in the middle. |
| Take care of business: | Payment is made to provider. e.g. "She wanted to take care of business first" |
| Teabag, Teabagging: | Man squats and dips his testicles into partners mouth. |
| Testicles: | The male reproductive glands |
| TG: | Transgender: Catch-all term for TV, TS, Shemales, and CDs. |
| Third sex: | Homosexuals |
| Throne Job: | Self-service hand job. Refers to an establishment that doesn't offer FS. The premises will only have a large chair or "throne" for you to sit on and masturbate while the woman dances for you. |
| Tipping required: | Hidden charges, provider demands more than the advertised price in order to perform, or bargains hard for various services. |
| TLC: | Tender loving care |
| Tomboy: | A girl who prefers the activities, privileges and dress of boys, and avoids female restrictions; sometimes used to describe adult women. |
| Tongue: | (verb) To perform oral intercourse |
| Took one for the team, TOFTT: | A hobbyist reviews a provider who has no (or scattered) reviews. He was ripped off, or his experience was very poor. Ostensibly, he has helped save other members of the community (the team) from making the same mistake. |
| Toolbox: | The male genitals |
| Torture: | Painful actions used to enhance sexual pleasure. |
| Toss the salad: | Anilingus |
| Trade: | A passive male prostitute for homosexuals |
| Training: | Discipline used by the Dom to control the sub's behaviour, condition and/or attitude. Pony training, anal training, position training, voice command response, etc. can be used for training. |
| Transgender: | An umbrella term for those who blur the lines of traditional gender expression. |
| Transgendered (TG): | One who switches gender roles, whether just once, or many times at will. Inclusive term for transsexuals and transvestites |
| Translation, translator: | Condom i.e. "She spoke fluent french without a translator" = BBBJ |
| Transvestite (TV): | One who occasionally dresses in the clothing of the opposite sex for sexual or emotional pleasure, or both. Can be male or female, hetero- or homosexual, bi- or solo sexual, and may partially or wholly cross-dress. Some have felt the word is a negative medical term; cross dresser and cross-dressing are more commonly used today. Transvestism, tranny |
| Triad: | The most basic and common form of multi-partner relationship, consisting of three adult primary partners, usually two of one sex and one of the other. threesome |
| Trick: | 1.
A sex act for money 2. A man who patronizes prostitutes |
| Trolling: | 1.
The act of driving around looking for a prostitute 2. Posting to a discussion board with the intent to anger or incite others |
| TS, Transsexual: | A person that mismatches his/her personal psychology. They go for counselling, hormone treatments and surgery. Before surgery a transsexual is referred as a "pre-op" TS and after surgery is a "post-op" TS. |
| TS: | Transsexual: a person with a psychological urge to belong to the opposite sex that may be carried to the point of undergoing surgery to modify the sex organs to mimic the opposite sex |
| Tuft: | Description of pubic hair. |
| TUMA: | Tongue up my ass. |
| Turn tricks: | Prostitution |
| TV: | Transvestite: person and especially a male who adopts the dress and often the behavior typical of the opposite sex especially for purposes of emotional or sexual gratification |
| Umbrella: | Condom. |
| Uncovered: | Without a condom |
| Unisex: | Not pertaining to one sex only. Unisex clothing can be worn by both traditional sexes. A unisex hair salon invites customers of both sexes. Unisexual |
| Urethra: | Duct which carries urine and semen |
| Urolagnia: | Sexual pleasure from watching another drink urine |
| Vacuum cleaner : | One who applies great suction during oral sex |
| Vagina: | Orifice of female sex organs |
| Vanilla sex: | Any non kinky sex acts |
| Versatile: | Bi-sexual |
| VFM: | Value for money |
| Vinyl : | Material used for fetish fashions |
| Virility: | The sexual power and capacity of a male |
| Voyeur: | One who gains sexual satisfaction from watching others undressing or engage in sexual acts |
| W/S: | Watersports |
| WAH: | 1.
From Wahei: peaceful, harmonious and calm
(Japanese) 2. Wild Ass Humping |
| Walk-up: | This is a type of establishment that is common in Soho (including Chinatown), A walk-up has an open door leading into a flat (or two or three) in each of which a prostitute works. They advertise mainly by means of a note by the entrance saying "model" and usually giving some details. |
| Water Sports: | Urination play |
| Weeklies: | Alternative weekly newspapers. These often contain various adult service listings, including massage and escort advertisements. e.g. The Village Voice, San Francisco Bay Guardian, The Stranger. |
| WF: | Wild Fuck |
| WG: | Working girl, same as prostitute/escort |
| Wham bam: | Rapid and hurried sexual activity |
| Whip : | Object that can be also a cane, crop, paddle or slapper, or a single or multiple-lash whips to beat a submissive. |
| White Knight: | A poster who defends or "comes to the rescue" of a provider who has been reviewed poorly, regardless of whether the review is accurate. |
| Wiener: | The penis |
| With: | With condom (e.g. French with = CBJ) |
| Without: | Without condom. (e.g. French without = BBBJ) |
| Work up: | To create passion or to be passionate |
| Working girl: | A prostitute. |
| Worship: | To lavish attention to a body part (Ex: feet.) Also, a role playing attitude toward a dominant. |
| X-frame: | A bondage frame in the shape of an "X" in a horizontal position |
| YMMV Girl: | A provider who is known for being inconsistent in her attitude and service. i.e. Gets hot and cold reviews. |
| YMMV: | Your Mileage May Vary = Catch all phrase to remind that tastes differ, reviews are inherently subjective, and that providers have good and bad days, thus experiences vary. |